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  • Saturday, October 07, 2017
    Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.
    ~ Oscars Mortuary
  • Saturday, October 07, 2017
    My sincere condolences to the family. I will never forget Calvin!s beautiful heart and smile.
    ~ Mary Wynn   Charlotte, NC
  • Monday, October 09, 2017
    I would like to offer my condolences for your loss. How comforting it is to know that Jehovah, the God of all comfort, will soon eliminate all grief and provide permanent consolation when “all those in the memorial tombs will hear  Christ’s voice and come out”! (John 5:28, 29) God promises that “he will do away with death forever, and the Sovereign Lord Jehovah will wipe away the tears from all faces.” (Isa. 25:8) Then, instead of having to “weep with those who weep,” all earth’s inhabitants will “rejoice with those who rejoice.”?—Rom. 12:15.
    ~ M Jones   New Bern, NC
  • Tuesday, October 10, 2017
    To My Family: SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF BROTHER CAL WISH I COULD BE THERE. BUT HE WILL FOR FOREVER IN MY HEART and REMEMBERED SUCH A HELPFUL, SILLY, FUN,LOVING MAN, MISS YOU MY BROTHER
    ~ Patricia Gray/Clinton   Jacksonville, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Wednesday, October 11, 2017
    Calvin you will forever be in my heart. I will always love you babe. Good took you away to soon and he got a wonderful man when he got you. My heart is broken but I know you are in. A better place. Keep you arms wrapped around me as I know you will. I love you Calvin and will never forget the love we have shared for 35 years. To the family I send my condolences. He got an angel when he got Calvin. Now he is with Reginald and they are kicking it. I will never for him or any of you. Thank you Debra for letting me know about his passing.
    ~ Janet Peoples   Quincy, IL
  • Friday, October 13, 2017
    I am so sorry for the loss of Calvin Gray. May Jehovah (Psalms 83:18)the God of all comfort, comfort you during your time of need
  • Monday, October 23, 2017
    We’re so sorry to hear about your recent loss. It surely is a very difficult time; but we both hope you can find some comfort in the words of Nahum 1:7 which reads: "Jehovah is good, a stronghold in the day of distress. He is mindful of those seeking refuge in him." Yes, you can rely completely on our Loving God. He also has made the SURE promise of a resurrection right HERE ON EARTH when it is restored to a beautiful paradise (Acts 24:15; Psalms 37:9-11, 29, Isaiah 55:11). Then death will be gone forever (Isaiah 25:8; Revelation 21:3,4) Going online at JW.ORG, We have found great articles as well as videos about this resurrection. Your can find out for yourself.
    ~ R&R Lopez
    
Calvin Gray
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Calvin Darnell Gray, 57, of 663 McLawhorn Drive, Vanceboro died Thursday, October 5, 2017  in Vanceboro.

His viewing hours are Wednesday from Noon to 6:00 PM at Oscar's Mortuary.

His funeral service is 11:00 AM. Thursday, October 12, 2017 at Oscar's Memorial Chapel.  Burial will follow with military honors at Coastal Carolina State Veterans Cemetery, Jacksonville.

He is survived by two sons, Alexander Gray, Florida, Corey Gray, Rocky Mount, NC, Kelly Gray, FL and Cynthia Cray, Rocky Mount, NC; two brothers, Jerome Brown and Thomas Brown both of New Bern; three sisters, Lucinda Guion and Janice Spivey both of New Bern and Debra Gray of Durham.

Friends will be received  at the residence of Janice Spivey 1122 Biddle St.