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       James Paul Pettis, Sr., was born on August 11, 1920 in Bessemer City, North Carolina and departed to his heavenly home on Wednesday, March 7, 2018 at his home in Gastonia, North Carolina.  He was the son of the late Manzey and Lottie B. Durham Pettis.

He was a charter member of New Beginning Missionary Baptist Church, Gastonia, North Carolina.  He faithfully served on the Deacon Board and the Hymn Choir until his declining health.  He served as Worshipful Master for St. John Lodge #21.

He was educated in the Bessemer City School System.  He was employed at Gaston College in Dallas, North Carolina retiring in 1982 and the Gaston County School System after serving forty years of service, retiring in 1996.

Besides his parents, he was preceded in death by his wife of forty-two years, Mattie M. Brown Pettis; three daughters, Naomi Pettis, Margaret Borders and Sara Ann Goode; two sons, James Paul Pettis, Jr. and Albert Pettis; five sisters and six brothers.

Left to cherish precious memories is his loving and devoted wife, Kathy Love Pettis of the home; two daughters, Ida M. Jeter (Alaska) of Gastonia, N.C. and Ollie J. Smith (David) of Shelby, N.C.; stepsons, Jonathan A. Love (Nicole) of Asheville, N.C. and Jerry L. Love of Gastonia, N.C.; brother, Charles Benjamin Pettis of Kings Mountain, N.C.; brothers-in-law, George Brown (Betty) of Dallas, N.C., John A. Love (Cheryl) of Jonesboro, GA, Charles W. Love (Valaida) and Horace L. Love (Cassandra) both of Gastonia, N.C.; nineteen grandchildren, thirty-eight great grandchildren and thirteen great-great grandchildren; a host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

Funeral Arrangement 

New Beginning Missionary Baptist Church
3041 Northwest Blvd
Gastonia, N.C.  28052

Tuesday, March 13, 2018 @ 2:00 P.M.

The family will receive friends for one hour prior to funeral.
(1:00 until 2:00 P.M.)

Vantine Cemetery
Bessemer City, N.C.

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  • Friday, March 09, 2018
    Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.
    ~ Costner Funeral Home
  • Tuesday, March 13, 2018
    Dearest Ida and family, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. You were fortunate to have your father for so long. When you spoke of him as we worked together at Gastonia Co. Health Dept., I could tell what a loving family you have and what a wonderful example he set for all. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May he rest in peace.
    ~ Joyce (Gettys) Hawkins   Gastonia, NC
  • Saturday, March 10, 2018
    Papa Pettis, will be greatly missed. He was a great man. I knew him almost 18 years and there was not a bad thing in his body.. hugs to our family and prayers as well..
    ~ Lovina Hall   Burlington, IA
  • Saturday, March 24, 2018
    It saddens us to hear you are mourning the loss of your loved one. May you find strength and comfort from the words of Psalms 34:18. It reads: “Jehovah is close to the brokenhearted; He saves those who are crushed in spirit." Our loving God is there for us if we ask for his help (1 John 5:14). He didn't intend for us to grow old and die. He thus has made the SURE promise of a resurrection RIGHT HERE ON EARTH when it is restored to a beautiful paradise (Psalms 37:9-11, 29; Acts 24:15; Isaiah 55;11). What a joy it will be to welcome back to life your loved ones who are asleep in death!! You can go online to JW.ORG and find out more about this resurrection. ~~~ You are also cordially invited to the memorial of Jesus death. The means by which the promise of a paradise is possible. Saturday, March 31, 2018 at 7:30 pm ; Location: Gastonia Conference Center 145 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Way Gastonia, NC 28052
    ~ R&R Lopez